Tips for dating an asian guy
Give her some time to get comfortable in your presence.Until she is comfortable it is your job to do the talking. I know, in the West it is totally normal to go for the kiss when you are at the train station or at the bus station.The only thing they don’t love is when you say something like “I don’t have any scientific proof for that, but in my experience Asian women are allergic against eye compliments. And in this case you can take the words “back” and “fire” literally. Traditional Asian families teach their kids respect and manners.If there is only one thing that you take away from this article, then please let it be this: Skip the chili and don’t risk spending your first date on the toilet, just because you wanted to prove something. To be honest, I have never seen a traditional Asian girl chewing like a bear while resting her elbow on the table, but maybe I just met the right girls.My girlfriend is a beautiful woman who was born in Thailand and when you date a traditional Asian woman like her, Western dating rules don’t apply. It gives me goosebumps to think about all the things I did wrong.I really hope you don’t make the same mistakes with the next Asian woman you approach.You also wouldn’t approach a black girl with a traditional African greeting, so why the hell do you want to do it with an Asian woman? Especially, because the men in their country tend to be very shy and they are not used to getting compliments. As one of my closest Asian female friends put it: I am a chopstick expert. But I practiced a lot to get to that level and it’s very likely that you didn’t. In fact, she’ll be happy when the food lands in your mouth and not on her cleavage. I can, but the first time I ate spicy my belly was screaming “death and decay” a couple of minutes after the delicious experience.They love it when you call them cute and they love it when you compliment their beautiful black hair. Your need to prove to an Asian woman that you are the chili king can backfire.
Same with a guy that says when eating out: I have whatever you have, what you like, I like.
I am in a wonderful relationship with a beautiful woman and when I think back to our first date, it’s a miracle that we actually came together. It really doesn’t sound too bad, at least not when you are dating a Western girl.
I did everything wrong that you can possibly do wrong. I ate from her plate, I tried to impress her with my cultural knowledge and I even tried to kiss her in public. When you are on a date with a Western girl it is absolutely okay to go for the kiss in a public environment. The problem was that the woman I went on a date with was not born and raised in a Western country.
do you think the reason why I’ve had no luck with getting dates with white girls is that white women do not find us Asian guys attractive? I’m Dutch and we Dutch are very open-minded, but being Dutch it is difficult for me to speak on behalf of the Canadian women when it comes to cultural behaviour and preferences based on upbringing and imprint.
However: A woman is a woman So from the female point of view, I can share some of the things that I have in mind when I’m dating.
Talking dirty is not only an art, but also a risky business. Don’t do it when you are dating a traditional Asian woman.