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One great way to make them feel more comfortable is to show them what you like.According to licensed clinical and research psychologist, Nicole Prause from UCLA, sex films have been shown to increase the breadth of sexual behaviors, like clitoral stimulation, anal sex, and bondage.“It could be helpful to ask the person to watch sex films with you to talk about what in the films is interesting, enticing, or a turn off,” Prause tells Bustle.There are women who were pretty shy in high school and during the first year or two of college, and it delayed the start of their dating lives somewhat, but they worked through the worst of it by their early twenties.And then there are the women in their mid-twenties or later who are still very inexperienced (more on that later on).Like with men, there's variation in how shy women can be toward the opposite sex and the idea of dating.There are lots of women who have good romantic lives, but who still consider themselves shy around guys at heart, and wish they weren't so inhibited by them.So most of us know how nerve wracking it feels to be the one who doesn’t really know what’s going on.Then there are times when you might even be the one with a bit more experience under your belt.
"It can be overwhelming and oftentimes, even if it’s positive, it can make them feel judged and thusly self critical,” she says.First off, what does it even mean to be “inexperienced?” If you go by findings from a recent Illicit Encounters survey, having less than 10 sexual partners would mean you’re "sexually inexperienced." Considering that the National Center for Health Statistics say adult women aged 20 to 59 have an average of four sex partners during their lifetime, while men have an average of seven, that would be a lot of people who are considered to be inexperienced in bed.If you just happen to be the one with a little more experience, here are some ways to make your inexperienced partner feel more sexually comfortable.“One of the best things to do when your partner has limited sexual experience is to pay attention to your pace,” Tristan Weedmark, global passion ambassador for We-Vibe tells Bustle.
“There’s no reason to rush into something in bed that might provoke anxiety.This piece was a little different to write for me, since being a guy, I didn't have the benefit of being able to draw on my firsthand experiences to inform my points (though you'll still see me interjecting a male perspective in parts).