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Now, the first person will be more invested because he or she has revealed more about him or herself and has opened up in terms of vulnerability.
The other person now has more power, less intrigue and the ability to choose what will happen next.
For a good dating (and relationship) dynamic, both people should hold roughly the same amount of power. if one person exposed to the other he or she is very interested and his or her interest won't wane), it shifts this balance to the other person.
Now, he or she has the power to decide how the situation can play out.
It will, indeed, continue to exist in dating dynamics as long as humans have insecurities and vulnerabilities.The amount of these two factors also determines the intensity of the attraction.