Dating with aspergers
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If we learn it at all, it’s because we’ve had others bluntly explain to us the “rules” regarding these and other related matters.
Finding a life partner is not always about finding the person you think is best for you but rather someone who compliments you, adds to what you lack, who is not perfect but who appreciates you for who you are and who is willing to put in the work that an intimate, lasting relationship requires.
Focus less about what you want and more about what you need.
Generally, this is because interacting socially is the most difficult part of having Asperger’s.
When it comes to dating, not only is it hard to meet someone you might want to date but when you do it’s even harder to know what it takes to make that date successful.Asperger’s men often seek partners who compensate for their shortcomings, such as their social awkwardness, their focus on routines, and their trouble expressing emotions.