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'" When directing her advice on dating rules to a male audience, Mc Clary puts things a little differently.
"Every woman and man should know their boundaries before they start dating, and most of us don't," says Cheryl Mc Clary, Ph D, JD, professor of women's health at University of North Carolina-Asheville. And if you concluded that, because of those observations, you weren’t inclined to try online dating again, you’d have plenty of evidence to support yourself. So let’s keep on going with your other misconceptions about online dating: You dated online for 3 months and didn’t find love? You’ve been in love 3 times in 40 years — why would you think you should it in 90 days on JDate? It’s not because you have no integrity or are a congenital liar. It means you have a deep-seated bias against online dating, so that anything I say which contradicts you is just going to irk you more. Anything to get you outside your comfort zone, to get you to see the world through a different, more empowering lens.But all the dating advice in the world is useless if you’re not actually dating regularly!
If you’ve resisted online dating because of your preconceived notions about how it is, I assure you, it’s because you’ve never tried it my way.
Mc Clary believes all daters should invest the same amount of time conducting these 'self' conversations about personal dating rules as they do primping before a big date.